Obesity is a pathology recognized as disabling or even disabling. Some overweight people are rejected, others are judged and criticized. Certainly, junk food, lack of interest and lack of sports activities are involved in these overweight individuals. But in other circumstances, it is more the environment, genetic and educational environment that is undermined. This is why these obese people, those who indulge in their compulsions, are often excluded by society. The latter would like the "big" to take over the body of the evil they are victims. Thus, overweight people will seek comfort and support from their family or circle of friends. Yet this is not the most recommended alternative. What to avoid Recently, the American journal Personal Relationships (1) publishes a study conducted by the University of Waterloo in Canada. This highlights the counterproductive effect of the pressure of relatives on the overweight of those who are already i...